On Ben's birthday, it's all about him. Whatever he wants goes, well within reason.
I headed to school today to eat lunch with the kids. Emily's lunch starts 10 minutes before Ben's, so I sat with her first.

I don't think she wanted her picture taken. But, she's not embarrassed by me at all yet and ran out of her classroom to greet me. They were on indoor recess because it's freezing outside with the wind chill, so it was okay.
Then Ben's class came in, so I switched seats by Ben.

That lunchroom was so noisy and crazy. It's organized chaos and as soon as one table is told to leave, it is being filled by the next grade. I got asked 100 questions by the different kids around. "What color is your house?" "Do you like beans?" "How do you know my name?" "Do you like pickles?" "Where do you live?" "Can you open my milk?" "I take medication, do you?" "Are you Ben's Mom?" Oh my gosh, after 40 minutes, I was ready to run out of there. We don't pay our lunch staff enough. Seriously.
After school, I had Ben's requested dinner going. Spaghetti and meatballs.

But Ben prefers his meatballs with no sauce. As he wishes...

Emily was very excited to give Ben her gift.

She wrapped up two of his dinosaurs this morning.

Obviously he said, "Um, I already have these." And she was upset. He didn't mean to hurt her feelings, he was just confused as to why his dinosaurs were in a giftbag. Next time we'll put her name on one of the new gifts.
He got a Green Lantern guy.

And a Thor sword.

Some Jacksons from the Grandparents.

Grammie and Grampie sent him this cool shirt also that says "Benjamin, Spider Boy". Very cool.

What Ben really wanted for his birthday was a radioactive spider, so he could become Spiderman. I posted a comment on
Spiderman Turn Off The Dark facebook wall. That's the Broadway show of Spiderman. I thought they might know where I could get a radioactive spider. They told me they were hard to come by, but they sent Ben a hat and keychain from the show. How cool is that?

Yeah, he thought it was very cool that Spiderman sent him a birthday gift.

Then, a duel broke out with the new Darth Vader mask, lightsaber and Thor sword.

Ben requested pumpkin cookies for his birthday dessert.

And he made a wish...

And do you know what he wished for? A radioactive spider.

Keep dreaming my sweet boy. I think he had a pretty great birthday.